The Weight of Sin

Hello Catholic Faithful!

Below you will find my July 9 sermon, The Weight of Sin, given at The Bridge Covenant Church, in Riverbank. Jesus encourages us neither to think we can do it all alone, nor that we can do nothing. Instead he recommends that we “yoke” ourselves to Him, bind ourselves closely to Him, and together with Him to do more than we ever thought imaginable! He tells us that His yoke is easy and His burden light. This is welcome news for those of us who believe that the weight of the world is always upon our shoulders! The truth is that Jesus came to give us rest, peace, and a life free from worry and anxiety–if we would but allow Him to carry our load with us. Are you experiencing that peace? Sadly, too many–believers and unbelievers alike–are collapsing under the weight. Find liberation in Christ Jesus! Life is too short for the bitterness, angst, and emotional poverty that results in putting out hopes in the hands of the world.

Also, a big “thank you” to The Bridge leadership team for this past Sunday off! Our family and Jill’s family had a great time at Sea Cliff Beach, in Aptos (Day 1), and at the Boardwalk (Day 2), in Santa Cruz! We spent our final day deep sea (100ft) fishing (Day 3). Together, myself, Mark, Luke, and Jill’s brother, dad, and friend, pulled in over 60 Rock Cod. Unfortunately, Luke’s stomach didn’t do so well but he said he had a good time anyway (and we caught his share of fish too!). I think we’ve officially added the fishing trip to the Santa Cruz agenda!



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Getting Caught Up!

Hello Brothers and Sisters! Happy 4th of July! I pray that you spend time with family and friends and enjoy both the freedom that has been won for us in Christ Jesus, and also the freedoms that are protected by this great nation. If you can do so, take the time to thank a veteran for safeguarding our freedom.

As the title clearly indicates, I am finally getting caught up on publishing June sermons given at The Bridge Covenant Church, in Riverbank! My internet at home is painfully slow, and it takes days (quite literally) to upload a sermon from my iPad, to my Dropbox, and then to YouTube. By God’s grace, however (and the virtue of patience), two Sunday sermons are now complete and the links are below! The first is “Trinity Sunday,” and the second is “A Child of God.” I hope you enjoy watching them, are edified by them, and are willing to both comment and share your thoughts or how the Spirit inspired and moved you by what you heard.

Stephen Valgos Catholic Evangelist

June 11 Sermon – Trinity Sunday

June 25 Sermon – A Child of God

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The Spirit Gives Gifts!

Hello brothers and sisters in Christ!


The Bridge Covenant Church, in Riverbank. 2201 Morrill Rd, Riverbank, CA 95367

So, for the past number of years I’ve been working with a small Covenant church in Riverbank called, The Bridge. I’ve known many of the members since I was in High School, and am even related to some by marriage. They are only about 30 members strong, but their pastor left to do missionary work in Brazil and they were left in the lurch. They approached me to see if I could offer them a message from time to time–had no problem that I am Catholic, and are even okay with my using the Lectionary to craft my sermons.


Over time I began to record the sermons and upload them to Youtube. Three years ago they asked if I might come on full time as their pastor to help them grow their Church. While the decision was difficult, I found great encouragement in St. Paul’s writings in 1 Corinthians 9:19-23 where he writes, “Although I am free in regard to all, I have made myself a slave to all so as to win over as many as possible. To the Jews…to those outside the Law…to the weak…I have become all things to all, to save a least a few. All this I do for the sake of the Gospel, so that I too may have a share in it.” Jill and I, and the boys, still attend Catholic Mass, but each Sunday now I lead a small community of very faithful Christians. And truth be told, I have found great joy in preaching the Gospel to anyone and everyone who might indulge me for a moment. I preach to Catholics, non Catholic Christians, Jews, Sikh, Hindu, Buddhists, and even atheists. I do not believe that God’s desire is that my message be relegated to only a few.

All this to say that I didn’t see any reason why I should not share with all of you, the sermons that I offer to all of them each Sunday–especially since I haven’t been posting since I’ve been busy writing and giving sermons! While the sermons are not particularly Catholic, they are particularly Christian and focus on the Scripture readings of the day. Feel free to visit the YouTube channel HERE for the sermon archives.

What follows (and the way I’ll do it each week) is the post that I’ve uploaded on The Bridge website. I’ll share it each week with all of you.

This past Sunday’s sermon is uploaded! CLICK HERE to view and share!

This past Sunday the Church celebrated Pentecost, the arrival of the promised Advocate, who would empower the Apostles then and in every generation to fulfill Jesus’ command to make disciples of all nations! The Spirit not only creates a hope in us for an eternal future with God, but also gives us the gifts for a real transformation now, right here, as we live out our days on earth.

The truth is that each of us is given the 7 gifts of the Holy Spirit promised by the prophet Isaiah (11:2-3) of wisdom, understanding, counsel, strength, knowledge, fear of the Lord, and a delight in doing God’s will, at baptism when we are filled with the same Holy Spirit that filled the Apostles at Pentecost! (Acts 2:1-21) Those gifts of the Spirit make us “other Christs” to the hungry, thirsty, broken, depressed, and “thrown away” people of our day and age in just the same way that Christ was present to heal the disenfranchised of His day. We, no less than Him, are called to bring the Good News that there is a better way, forgiveness of sins, and salvation for all who call on the name of the Lord!

Everyone of us who make up the body of Christ is given some special grace and gift to build up the body of Christ–that Christ might be more present in every generation through the building up of the Body. (1 COR 12:3-13) The Kingdom of God is indeed growing and expanding and everyone of us is essential to its growth. Use your gifts and make Christ present to someone in need today. Jesus promised that if we come to Him thirsty, if we believe in Him and drink deeply of His Spirit, then “rivers of living water will flow out from within” us. (John 7:37-39). We become the living water and bring refreshment to the souls of all we encounter. Only then, having drank deeply of Christ and become a blessing to others, will we fulfill His commandment to love God and neighbor, and to spread the Good News to all nations.

Have a blessed week and use your gifts!

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The Pope on TED

Hi Catholic family! Just saw this and I thought I’d forward it to you. Super cool. Click HERE to see the Pope on TED. 

Stephen Valgos, Catholic Evangelist 

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Sacred Heart Lenten Mission

My brothers and sisters in Christ Jesus! Please consider attending my 3-Day Lenten Mission at Sacred Heart Catholic Church, in Turlock. It begins Monday, February 29 and goes through Wednesday March 2. It begins at 7pm in the main Church, and lasts for about an hour. The three nights are as follows:

Night 1: The Season of Lent: Ashes, 40 days, and the Goal
Night 2: The Season of Lent: Prayer, Fasting, and Almsgiving
Night 3: The Season of Lent: A Year of Mercy, Reconciliation, and Healing
I hope you can make it!

Lenten Blessings,

Stephen Valgos

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Be That One Man (or Woman)

Saint-Paul-743Today, St. Paul teaches the Romans the power of grace and life over sin and death through Christ Jesus our Lord. The reading from Romans 5:12-21 follows:

Brothers and sisters:
Through one man sin entered the world, and through sin, death, and thus death came to all men, inasmuch as all sinned.

If by that one person’s transgression the many died, how much more did the grace of God and the gracious gift of the one man Jesus Christ overflow for the many. For if, by the transgression of the one, death came to reign through that one, how much more will those who receive the abundance of grace and the gift of justification come to reign in life through the one Jesus Christ.

In conclusion, just as through one transgression condemnation came upon all, so, through one righteous act acquittal and life came to all. For just as through the disobedience of one man the many were made sinners, so, through the obedience of the one the many will be made righteous. Where sin increased, grace overflowed all the more, so that, as sin reigned in death, grace also might reign through justification
for eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.

Adam and EveSt. Paul is teaching the very important truth that with God, sin, death, disease, pain, hardship, and brokenness will never be the end. God ALWAYS has the last word. God’s grace is more powerful than any sin that we or anyone else might commit. The disobedience and sin of Eve and Adam is undone through the obedience of Mary and Jesus. Yes, ultimately, love prevails. And that’s good news. Jesus is risen, and we are a risen people!

Sinful WomanI think the take-away lesson that’s so important for us, is first and foremost, through Jesus Christ, in spite of our weakness and sin, we can all experience salvation through God’s amazing grace. As St. Paul says, “Where sin increased, grace overflowed all the more.” Yes, we have been justified (made right with God) not because of what we have done, but because of what He has done! Celebrate your new life though Christ Jesus and give thanks always for the goodness and generosity of God.

Secondly, live in the truth of your new lease on life. I was just doing a retreat in Fresno with a good girl helpingman named, Francis Ruiz. He shared with me that not once but twice, he was as good as dead, but miraculously, God protected him and preserved his life. He was thrown from a motorcycle at 75mph and by all rights should never have lived…and yet there he was. His experience helped him to realize that no moment on this earth can be wasted. God has a plan for him. He doesn’t know what it is, but there’s no time to waste. He has dedicated and rededicated his life to the Lord. Like Francis, each of us needs to be honest about our new life, and serve the one who set us free–namely, Jesus, by serving our neighbor.

helping homelessFinally, we need to be more like Jesus. I’ve heard that imitation is the greatest form of flattery. It always brings me joy as a teacher when by the end of the school year, my students have mastered by words and actions, and they all run around acting like Mr. Valgos. I have entered their heart through my love and care for them, and they flatter me by doing what I do, and saying what I say. So too must it be with those who follow Jesus. If we have new life through him, we must live in response to that new life by giving life to others with our words and deeds. The true indication that the love of God through Christ Jesus is in us, is the degree to which we love, forgive, show mercy to, and have compassion for others. Be like Him, love like Him, speak like Him, and act like Him. He won’t mind–in fact, He’ll be overwhelmed with joy!

Christians do not love out of fear of punishment or a desire for reward. We love because we can. We have been set free by Jesus (who loved us in spite of our sin) to love others who often don’t deserve it any more than we do. This is how all will come to know that we are His disciples, if we have love for one another. (John 13:35). We can quite easily teach the truth that is contained is St. Paul’s teaching today by being willing to love and bring light to a world in darkness and sin. Love, forgive, and show someone close to you mercy today…because you can, and be that one man (or woman) that brings life to the world through Christ Jesus the Lord.

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Recently Published!

Hi Everyone! After much effort over the summer and into Christmas, I am pleased to announce that my work with Saint Mary’s Press to create a Teacher’s Edition to their Middle School Handbook has come to fruition! Yeah! Click the links below to go to the SMP website. Just wanted to share this exciting news. I pray that God blesses your life and family abundantly!

The Old Testament and the Trinity

The Prophets, Jesus Christ, and the Holy Spirit

Stephen Valgos

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Love. Period.

Image result for John 15:9-17Jesus said to his disciples: “As the Father loves me, so I also love you. Remain in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy might be in you and your joy might be complete. This is my commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends…This I command you: love one another.” ~John 15:9-17

The Christian life is very very simple…not easy, but simple. Jesus makes it abundantly clear, even to the point of stating it over and over, if we are going to call ourselves His disciples then we absolutely must love one another. Love is not an “extra” to the Christian life, but is rather essential to it. God is love. God the Father loves the Son. God the Son loves us to such a great degree that He was willing to die for us. Naturally, then, if we call ourselves His, how could we ever fail to love others? In fact, in the first epistle of John, John tells the community that if they don’t love each other then they can’t even claim to know God at all! He calls them liars! He says, “Beloved, let us love one another, because love is of God; everyone who loves is begotten by God and knows God. Whoever is without love does not know God, for God is love.” (4:7-8)

I think as Catholics we too often get caught up in all the “have tos” “musts,” and “don’ts,” and in doing so become horrible legalists–always looking for the fine line to justify or excuse a particular action. We live our Christian life under the burden of the finite details instead of focusing on the broader principal the underlies all of the Church’s teachings, her dos, don’ts, and musts, namely, love! Jesus had little time or patience for the Pharisees for this very reason (see MT 23). He calls them “blind guides” who have entirely missed the point on what it means to be a child of God.

The Christian life, far from a life of fear of wrongdoing (like abused children always afraid of angering father) is instead one marked by joy, celebration, hope, optimism, life, and love. We are loved my a merciful and forgiving God. We don’t live in fear, we live in God’s grace, mercy, and love. The question each of us must ask ourselves, is not primarily “What does the Church say about this or that,” but instead, “Is this the most loving thing that I can do in my present situation?” When we realize, as St. Paul teaches the Church in Corinth (10:23), that we are free in all things, then we realize also, that our words and actions have amazing and awe-ful consequences. When we come to know the true power of our actions, we will naturally want to make sure that what we do is indeed what is most loving–and that’s the role of the Church in every generation! Namely, to be a sure guide in the formation of our conscience so that we do the good we desire to do from moment to moment.

The Church is an amazing gift to us! God sends His Spirit into the Church, and in every generation speaks to her that she might know what is most good and most loving at every moment in time until Christ returns. We use the Church’s vast experience to form our conscience, and it’s within the well-formed conscience that we hear the voice of God echo in our depths prompting us to do the good that God desires of us, to know what is most loving and true. The well-formed conscience is able to choose what is truly most loving in any particular situation, and then allows us to sleep well in the peace of knowing that in each circumstance of our day we chose to love in obedience to Christ, and thus remain His. St. Augustine said, “Love God and do whatever you please: for the soul trained in love to God will do nothing to offend the One who is Beloved.” Well said, indeed. Let us who desire to love in word and deed never fail to first be trained in it.

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Originally posted in 2013 for Lent

And then God said to mankind, “YOLO!” Well, not really, but something like that. My students enjoy a new sort of saying today (You Only Live Once) that I believe is very true, although we have a very different way of interpreting its meaning. While my students will use it to justify irresponsible action that is potentially harmful to themselves and others, I believe that it is a wake-up call to love and accountability. That we only have one life to live is a painful reminder that life is short and it’s time to examine ourselves to discern whether what we are doing is consistent with the will of God.

St. Paul tells the Romans, “Do not conform yourselves to this age but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and pleasing and perfect.” (12:2) We are not the Creator, after all, but the creature. We were created by God and for God, and find our true happiness only in His will.

Our Church celebrates this reminder of our mortality and the brevity of life on Ash Wednesday, which marks the beginning of our 40-Day Lenten journey of transformation. My students say Y.O.L.O., but Scripture says it like this: 

  • GN 2:5-7 When God made the Imageearth and the heavens—He formed man out of the clay of the ground and blew into his nostrils the breath of life, and so man became a living being.
  • GEN 18:27 Abraham speaks to God and says, “See how I am presuming to speak to my Lord, though I am but dust and ashes!”
  • PS 90:3 God says through the psalmist, “You return to dust, “Return, you mortals!.”
  • PS 104:29 When God hides His face, we are lost. When He takes away our breath, we perish and return to the dust from which we came.
  • ECCL 3:20 We are made from the dust, and to the dust we return.

In all these different ways God’s Word is a consistent reminder that we will not be on this earth forever–in fact, but for a short time! No one will make it out of here physically alive. Everyone you’ve known, everyone you know, and everyone you will know will ultimately “return to the dust.” This became painfully obvious to me when visiting Terceira, one of the Azores Islands, when I was a boy. I visited our family’s burial plot next to the old church. It was not fancy and very, very small. People had been buried in this tiny plot, about the size of a quarter of a football Imagefield, for generations. There were bones everywhere (hence the term “bone yard”) as each new generation reused the same plot to bury their dead where the previous generation had buried the ones that they loved years before. My friends, in short time we all return to dust. 

The most common response I hear to why people get ashes on Wednesday is, “Well, I’m Catholic.” The conversation with the co-worker goes something like this, “What’s on your forehead?”

“Oh, those are Ashes.”

“That’s kind of weird. Why do you have ashes on your head?”

“Well, it’s Ash Wednesday, and I’m Catholic, so we’re supposed to get ashes today.”

I’m told that short of only Christmas and Easter, more Catholics attend Ash Wednesday services, than any other time of the year. The crazy thing is that Ash Wednesday is not even a Holy Day of Obligation, as are all Sundays and Holy Days of the year. Why would so many people get to Church before work, on their lunch break, or after work just to get ashes that many know nothing about? A cynical friend of mine assures me that it’s because that’s the only day the Church gives out anything for free!

Or maybe it’s because down deep we know that the teaching is true. We are prone to sickness, disease, brokenness, and death. We see it on the news, experience it in our towns, our schools, and in our families. WE ARE HUMAN and will die, but we have also been MADE DIVINE and the Spirit of God lives in us, and so we too are eternal.

Where we spend our eternity, either with God or separated from God, hangs in the delicate balance of how we choose to live our lives for this brief time on earth. We can either choose life and love, or brokenness and death. And we choose it with every decision we make, with every word and deed. Our bodies have come from the earth and will return to it, and none of us knows when. How should we live in light of the shortness of life and the great length of eternity? Reflect upon that as you receive your ashes today. God Bless.